Sunday, July 12, 2009

The face or the heart matters?

Blame boredom hitting me now, so i am going to post this crap up... Haha
It's just a spontaneous writing, so it'd be a long winding boring one....

Is there any true love in any relationships?

What would matter u the most in picking a partner.

To say face does not matter at all it would be a lie. We are human, admit it, face the reality, face does somehow plays quite an important role

It may just be the utmost important criteria for some but as for others it might not.

For me it is just as important as to give you the first good impression. Then only there comes the heart or personality to play the role. They are both just as important. But the personality matters to me the most than the face. No point having someone with the most beautiful face but with a wicked heart. In fact, it can be a big turn off for me no matter how perfect the person looks like.

And mind you, don’t despise my statement. It is just merely my thought, ask yourself does face really do not matter at all to you? There could be some exceptional anyway. So I am trying to make a point here, that if you have a very bad personality, you have the most evil thoughts most of the time in your mind, and yet you are loved by that someone or your partner; there’s a high possibility that you are only loved for your looks by he or she. And this is not called true love neither it is even called love. It’s just plain foolish. And this only applies to those with good faces lar of course.

If you have a bad bad persobality and yet not that good looking but still people coming after you, then i would say you are one lucky ass. So, be good, be kind hearted, dig up your goodies in you, don’t take your looks for granted. You’ll be just a fool if you think you are good looking enough for so many “bees” coming after you because probably those people are only coming after just for your face... perhaps your $$$???

There’s this analysis i thought to myself, which is, for those who does not have the much advantage in face wise, when you find people keep courting you/coming to you, it could mean that you have something in you, probably your heart that attracts them. And definitely they don’t need to worry if they are coming after you or only your face. They’ve no worries for that.. (probably like me?? Haha, that’s why i am not worried)

But those with really good looks, they might think twice to wonder if those coming after you are for real or just because you are good looking.

That might explain why you used to wonder how come such beautiful ladies are seen hooked up with such fat guys, only to find out that the males are just filthy rich. No offence ladies. Same goes to the not straight relationships, good looking guys are seen with sugar daddies??



Ok, this post has nothing to do with anyone, has no purpose in referring to anyone. Just a plain thought after phone chatting with buddy Daren last night. Talked about so many things and this “how come there are so many out there now are coming for looks and to have fun?” topic just came in.

Just because there’re people thought that he is one arrogant chap and only look for fun, sorta playboy type so i am here to sun bin clarify his name here... Well, he is totally opposite of what judged by some people. He is just one funny friendly buddy who likes to bitch around with me.. XD

So STFU you guys who likes to simply judge people. Get a mirror for yourself before opening your mouth.

And come to think of it, not all leng chai leng lui are arrogant ge lorrrr....I’m lucky to have buddies around me whom are not arrogant at all lorrr.....

Hui Chingzzzzz

Jeffreyzzz


Peizzzzz



Illias (monyet tak bertamadun)
Fiona (da Tze Tzu)


Daren (da Joker)

Aiya, enough lar... duwan post dy...

All crap... All friends are mine... no matter how they look like.... Remember, what type of heart you have is the utmost important......
Ok, get back to revision for Principle of Biotechnology paper this coming Wednesday. Wish me luck...

~Toodles~

P/S: Impressive that i could type this long in just 5minutes. Anyways, just craps… How come i am taking almost a week plus to type my HR assignment leh~ Sobz..... Anyone is up for RM50 to do my part in HR?????Anyone??? L HR is so not my thing...............

9 comments:

eliza natsuko said...

true true.. but you know, sometimes some people are just so oblivious to what they're doing, and to everything else. they might not know that they're committing something bad or worse still, they knew it but think it wasn't so bad and that maybe something abt them (popularity? looks? trust? watever.) can cover up for what they did.
sigh...

but anyway, i love this post! :D *if only i could like it like in fb. lol* and LOLz at Illias being monyet tak bertamadun XD

Anonymous said...

hahaha!i;m damn proud wey..1st pic...muahahah!btw better u dun miss me out in ur list okie..if nt i dowan 2 fren u d..hahaha!

-hc-

fuzpeiz said...

Well..u noe..not evibody will have nice face n nice heart like my sayang....muahhahhaahhaa
weeeeeee

Leu said...

lolz~ i will go for the look b4 personality... hhehe~ coz d look will attract me 1st

Anonymous said...

yealaa..fupei..i noe u damn proud okie..hahaha blind folded by love

-hc-

jackychan said...

long time din boom ur blog...
haha BOOM XD
agreed with ya XD
find me la when u r bek to ipoh =.="
sei sor lou

erictbk said...

Eliza: high 5.. ^^ u can like it on my facebook coz it was posted out as well.^^

Hc: proud lehhh... ish.. perasan.. XD

Fupei: =.=" I thought u would say yourself

Leumas: yea, but in the end personality comes take on the role. no matter how nice in looking but the personality is bad means a big no no...

Hc: yealo, dibuta oleh cinta...

Jacky: oiiii, u always dissappear wan, now u still in ipoh mehhh...

Kenji said...

Hahaha I have to agree with ya that looks give off the first impression... then yes, the personality comes after! BUT ANYWAY! I should stay away from this conversation... I'm not having any luck haha! xD

But yeah good luck with your paper! xD

erictbk said...

your luck will come one day my friend... finger crossed!
thanks, just got over the "hurdle" today!